U put a ring on it?

you and your fiance don’t quite seem to be a couple, or even headed in that direction. If you were headed toward couplehood, then she would want to ride the tilt-a-whirl at the carnival of life with you.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/ask-amy-new-employee-wonders-how-to-correct-the-gentlemen/2015/05/19/b452cd32-fb17-11e4-9ef4-1bb7ce3b3fb7_story.html